Friends are Forever... Nancy Cline Harrington on the left ~ Tammy on the right. It is impossible that anything so natural and so universal as death, should ever have been designed by Providence... as an Evil to Mankind. Jonathan Swift
We Miss You So Much Tammy
Tammy would have turned 33 years old today Saturday, March 29, 2014
We all know you are looking down on us today, we all love and miss you so very much Tammy and so wish you were here to celebrate your brother Mike's wedding day (Mike & Jenna), with so much love on what would have been your 32nd birthday, Mom & Ron, Mike & Jenna and Family, Rob & Chris and Family, Steve & Lori and Family, Kevin, and the rest of your family and friends!
Regardless how old your child is..... there is nothing more agonizing then when they go missing and cannot be found for either days, weeks, months, years -- it is just horrible!!! In some cases they are found alive and well, but for those that are never found or found brutally murdered --- it is total devastation and beyond comprehension for their parents, a huge part of them dies the moment they find out what has happened to their child/children.
My heart goes out to any parents, family, and friends that have to endure this horrific journey, with heart-felt sympathy, Deb Baker ~ Angel Tammy's Mom
Missing for 2 months and 1 day -
Tammy was found on Friday, March 28, 2003,
by a man who was enjoying a ride on his 4-wheeler,
it was one of the first nice days of spring that year and
one day before what was to be her 22nd birthday......
Saturday, March 29, 2003.
This is the cross that was placed on the side of the dirt road where Tammy was murdered.........
The woods in the background are part of a NY State Forrest.
POMC Murder Victim Memorial Ribbon on an Angel Bear Parents of Murdered Children - www.pomc.com
The red represents the violence in society
The black symbolizes death and mourning
Angel pins are worn with the ribbons to symbolize the victims
Hope You Enjoy the Music that is Playing....
Tammy's favorite songs at the time of her death was the song "Picture" by
Kid Rock and Cheryl Crowe. Her favorite religious song was "Amazing Grace".
There is not a moment in the day that I do not long for you to be here
Back of Tammy's headstone - September 2008
The back of her headstone reads as follows:
”Welcome to My Special Garden”
I leave this world forever young, murdered in my youth, a senseless crime done by a man I barely knew. So I would like some special girls to accomplish the dreams that I had planned. Whichever you select, I would like to let you know what a special gift it will be in memory of me. A Special Girl to become a veterinarian or an assistant and to travel to warm tropical places with beautiful beaches. A Special Girl to live, laugh, dream, be a sweetheart and to marry the one you love. A Special Girl to walk down the aisle in my Moms wedding dress, the one I had her save for me. To my family, my sweetheart, and my friends - remember all our good times and our bad times too, they meant the world to me. I will always be with you and you with me - for we have such awesome memories! Love, Tammy 21 years - 10 months - 1 day
We love and miss you so much! Like the candles flame, you gave my life true light, ~ Mom Not enough time little sister ~ Robert, Mike, Steve Will always remember you, see you soon in the sky, your little brother ~ Kevin I Love You with all my heart. You will always be my sweetheart, and I will always be your baby. ~ Darin
Since 2003.... there have been 4 neices and 3 nephews that she, nor they, will ever have the chance to meet!! Tammy would have made such an awesome aunt to them!!!